So; this is my first blog and i thought id give you a little background on my life just so that everyones up to date with everything. The names Branna and im islander hence the name thatfobchickbee. :) and im just a normal chick with a pretty funny life. Ive got my girls I have loving parents and alota boy troubles lol. Im usually Dr Phil with the relationship side of things but sometimes Dr Phil has problems of her own lols. But we'll get to that later on throughout my blogging i guess.
Anyway enough of the boring stuff; i got inspired to write this blog because of my girl Golds.
So Golds thanks heaps for the inspiration.
Now; I was thinking about it and SERIOUSLY! I do not get boys. Im not your typical girly girl so i do get some insight into how they act but when it comes to the subject of love, you dont know how a guy would react. Ive come up with a list of possibles you may get, now dont fully trust me on this but this is purely from my exprience and as they say most guys are the same,
FIRST PUPPY LOVE:
Now this guy might not be all that BUT he is your first taste of "love". The one that gives you those first feelings of giddy and your first butterflies, the one that either STUFFS or SHAPES the rest of your relationships lols.
Now I am glad i met the idiot that shaped my love life because if it wasnt for him i'd be one of those girls that are scared of men and get walked over like a mat. (not saying ive had some of those moments; the strong are weak too you know)
SEMI SERIOUS BORING GUY:
Now this guy you fall for, because he was BETTER than mr puppy love. This is the guy that actually treats you how you want to be treated and you know you could end up with but turns out to be extremely BORING. The one that eventually turns into a good friend and nothing more.
THE PLAYER:
Now we all know who the player is. He is the incredibley HOT guy that knows it. The one that can say one thing and youd melt. You dont actually care that the conversation isnt all that but at least he looks good haha. The only problem is you know hes saying the same things that make you melt to 10 other girls. And HE LOVES IT! so not even worth the time.
THE USER:
This guy uses you for everything and ANYTHING. he has no heart. and deserves to be punched in the face.
THE NON-COMMITER:
This guy is worse than the player, I reckon, at least the player knows what he wants! This guy is the one that tells you everything you wanna hear and loves to hear everything you wanna say but just cant go that one step further by making it official, its like why get involved if you cant make your mind up and just COMMIT.
THE NICE GUY:
This guy is the nicest guy you have ever come across, he loves actually loves you for you and wants to do whatever you want. He's the one that will take you shopping, wait for you for hours, call you and text you whenever you want. Hes everything you want and more. But the saying " nice guys always finish last" also sometimes happens in relationships, the nice guy turns out to be like the semi-serious guy.. he just turns BORING.
THE OVER POWERING GUY:
This guy thinks hes the MAN.. the one that tells you what to do and when to do it. This guy is a DICK and you must stay away from him. If youve seen or heard of the movie Once were warriors: JAKE HEKE hes a OVERBOARDS version of "the overpowering guy". Just dont even go there.
THE BAD BOY:
This one is like the PLAYER cept he doesnt care about anything, lets say hes a mix of PLAYER & NON - COMMITER and a pinch of ATTITUDE. I personally think that bad boys are sexyyyy. haha but not worth the trouble in the end hell just break your heart cause girls no matter how bad you wanna change them you cant!
Last of all is
THE REAL DEAL (also known as the one):
*Warning: This guy could of started as the real one, then suddenly change into one of the guys above. *
Woah, this guy is the guy that takes your breath away. The one you seriously cant stop thinking about; hes the one that makes you wanna change for the better to make your relationship with him better. The one you cry for at night because you miss him. You feel it deep in your heart, Deep in your stomach that this guy no matter what arguements or differences is the one you wanna be with no matter what. haha yeahh THAT guy..
So yeah thats the list of guys ive made so far im sure theres more; but i think these few are the ones that are normally about. The trick is though not to even let the guy win. Be the BOSS from the start so that youre the one wearing the pants. Guys are Guys and theres never a way you can figure them out. They are like creatures from out of space you think you know all about them but you find out new and different things all the time.
Anyways enough of the blab from me;
I shall update you with my random thoughts again soon.
x
-B
